Sometimes, a break is what you need
There comes a time in any couple's relationship when things turn stale and require revitalizing. You can view it as a reboot or a jump-start. Things have a way of getting in the way of any relationship. ESPECIALLY when you have a perfectly good relationship. It's more important to have breaks every now and then.
Why did I highlight "especially"? Well, it's easy to become lazy in a perfectly good relationship. I mean, with a bad relationship, you're frequently kept on your toes. You don't know where it's headed. You don't know if there's a future. But with a good relationship, it can be deceiving. You reach a certain comfort level that eventually leads to the two of you taking each other and your relationship for granted.
Sometimes you need some time away from each other to gain perspective on how you really feel about one another. Relationships are a dynamic beast. You can't be lazy about it because it requires constant attention. Absence and distance will make you learn to appreciate each other and your love for each other all over again, and realize things about the one you're with. It doesn't even need to be a long break, even a weekend apart will do.
Give it a try. It just might work wonders for your relationship.

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